Thanks. Maybe I should describe the problem more clear. for instance C1 and C2 for oscillator input and output. Then, if C1<>C2, C1//C2=Cload. Whether we should choose C1>C2, or C1<C2?
Yes, You are right.
We chose some capacitors ( 15pF and 18pf for instance) to meet our requirement of center frequency. Now the problem is the oscillator is not so stable any more in some special condition: Like high humidity... Whether we should change the capacitance ? Or swap them?